Without Peg's introduction to Gretchen Rubin's work, I would never have known about the 25 in 25, so it's no surprise that you two are well on your way to completing your 25 goals for the year. It delights me that I can now check off one more of my 25 in 25 goals now that I will see you here in Virginia soon.
So glad to see you here, Louise, my longest-standing-MHC-friend. Mine is a love-hate relationship with lists, but as you point out, no point in hating if there is no obligation to complete them. Amen to that.
And thanks for cueing the Nat King Cole song about heading west. Will email you. xo
Gosh, ask me how much I like the pairing of the words, "prioritize" and "play." I'd add the appetizer "plan." PLAN, PRIORITIZE, and PLAY"-- with emphasis on "play." Thanks, Megan.
Right, BA? How can anyone NOT love The Moth? It’s tough to memorize a story, or at least the main elements, and get it down to five minutes. Thanks for reading and commenting, my love.
When I read your words I smile. I smile bc I know you well. The linen story is a good one. If they were saga’s/epic's my brain fails me now. Short versions of reading is like sipping cold beer with a friend & goes now nice & smooth. Just like the golden oldie days.
Fenwick Island, DE has a Dark Skies event. They did one earlier this summer - not sure if there's another planned or not. Something to look at! If you do - let me know - I'm nearby!! International Dark Sky week is in April....
I found this after reading your post about who subscribes to your Substack. Figured I'd check it out. I hadn't heard of 25 in 25... I wonder what my list would have been in January versus now mid-September. About to go on a vacation, I'll take this with me as a way to think about the months that have past and those that are yet to be.
I haven’t heard of 25 in 25, but here’s where my brain goes with that: Huh, I wonder what my 25 goals would’ve been? What are all the rich moments and things I’ve done this year that would’ve been goals if I’d somehow conceived of them ahead of time? …If I come up with a list like that, what kinds of patterns would I see in the things I put on it? Would they have any factors in common that help me navigate toward more goals-I-can’t-see? …And huh, I never know what to do with all my journaling, but this actually sounds like a right-sized project to bring to this year’s journals and maybe turn into a blog post or two. Thanks for the inspiration!
Also, “the year I turned my world upside down by leaving a marriage, a highly coveted job, and a life in Europe I loved” sounds like the memoir I want to read. Stories about how people let go of identities fascinate me.
Christina, I love your take on the 25 in 25. Hope you get it down. The whole idea is endlessly recyclable. I had thought about (and might just do) an essay on 25 newish things I did do in 25.
And many, many thanks for your nod about the memoir. I appreciate your support.
Never heard of this. But now that I’m retired recently maybe I need to do it. I’m feeling unmoored or wasting too much time. I like to make lists and will start. This may help me in tackling some things. I did start canasta the other night which went better than mahjong. One down and 24 to go.
Hurrah. Eager to hear more as your list develops, Susan. As Mimi used to suggest about old age, I will apply to retirement. It’s not for sissies. But the rewards, once you find your groove, are many.
I think you could go halfway on 14 (just putting your name in a hat) and call it a win. Of course I got picked to speak the first time I did that, which is either unlucky or lucky depending on how you want to look at it.
We are well on our way to completing our 25 in 25 list!
Without Peg's introduction to Gretchen Rubin's work, I would never have known about the 25 in 25, so it's no surprise that you two are well on your way to completing your 25 goals for the year. It delights me that I can now check off one more of my 25 in 25 goals now that I will see you here in Virginia soon.
Love lists too - and appreciate the reminder that we don't need to complete them! Let me know if you travel west, my friend!
So glad to see you here, Louise, my longest-standing-MHC-friend. Mine is a love-hate relationship with lists, but as you point out, no point in hating if there is no obligation to complete them. Amen to that.
And thanks for cueing the Nat King Cole song about heading west. Will email you. xo
What a fun process! Never heard of the 25 in 25... what a potent way to prioritize and play!
Gosh, ask me how much I like the pairing of the words, "prioritize" and "play." I'd add the appetizer "plan." PLAN, PRIORITIZE, and PLAY"-- with emphasis on "play." Thanks, Megan.
You say whaaat! I love “the moth”
Right, BA? How can anyone NOT love The Moth? It’s tough to memorize a story, or at least the main elements, and get it down to five minutes. Thanks for reading and commenting, my love.
When I read your words I smile. I smile bc I know you well. The linen story is a good one. If they were saga’s/epic's my brain fails me now. Short versions of reading is like sipping cold beer with a friend & goes now nice & smooth. Just like the golden oldie days.
High praise, my friend. Thank you so much.
Love this, Sheila!! Very inspiring. Xxxx
Aw, thank you, friend. I'd be lost with readers like you.
Fenwick Island, DE has a Dark Skies event. They did one earlier this summer - not sure if there's another planned or not. Something to look at! If you do - let me know - I'm nearby!! International Dark Sky week is in April....
Love that idea, Mari Lou!
I found this after reading your post about who subscribes to your Substack. Figured I'd check it out. I hadn't heard of 25 in 25... I wonder what my list would have been in January versus now mid-September. About to go on a vacation, I'll take this with me as a way to think about the months that have past and those that are yet to be.
Yes! Love that idea, Megan. Enjoy your vacay.
I haven’t heard of 25 in 25, but here’s where my brain goes with that: Huh, I wonder what my 25 goals would’ve been? What are all the rich moments and things I’ve done this year that would’ve been goals if I’d somehow conceived of them ahead of time? …If I come up with a list like that, what kinds of patterns would I see in the things I put on it? Would they have any factors in common that help me navigate toward more goals-I-can’t-see? …And huh, I never know what to do with all my journaling, but this actually sounds like a right-sized project to bring to this year’s journals and maybe turn into a blog post or two. Thanks for the inspiration!
Also, “the year I turned my world upside down by leaving a marriage, a highly coveted job, and a life in Europe I loved” sounds like the memoir I want to read. Stories about how people let go of identities fascinate me.
Christina, I love your take on the 25 in 25. Hope you get it down. The whole idea is endlessly recyclable. I had thought about (and might just do) an essay on 25 newish things I did do in 25.
And many, many thanks for your nod about the memoir. I appreciate your support.
Never heard of this. But now that I’m retired recently maybe I need to do it. I’m feeling unmoored or wasting too much time. I like to make lists and will start. This may help me in tackling some things. I did start canasta the other night which went better than mahjong. One down and 24 to go.
Hurrah. Eager to hear more as your list develops, Susan. As Mimi used to suggest about old age, I will apply to retirement. It’s not for sissies. But the rewards, once you find your groove, are many.
I think you could go halfway on 14 (just putting your name in a hat) and call it a win. Of course I got picked to speak the first time I did that, which is either unlucky or lucky depending on how you want to look at it.
Yup! Here in DC, almost everyone gets to the stage. Was delighted to see that you did it this year!! Good on you.